I give really good advice. Seriously I do. It isn't so much that I help people solve their immediate problems, it is that I help them think more clearly about their problems so that they can solve them in a way they are going to feel REALLY good about. The people I help tell me I have transformed their lives. The approach I teach is called Humanism and it has been around since, well, forever. The three main aspects of the philosophy I teach is how to make better decisions thru critical thinking. How to improve your relationships thru compassion and how to infuse your life with meaning and purpose by applying your ethics actively to all your decisions, not just the big ones.
I am the host of this website and the author of The Bully Vaccine which teaches an operant conditioning approach to the problem of bullying.
Kids can learn how to deal with difficult people without being traumatized Kids need to learn how to deal with difficult people, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t teach them …
Bullying is traumatic. Support the victims. Don’t Blame them! Don’t downplay the problem or suggest the victim brought this on themselves. The problem is that the bully is a bully.