Civil behavior as a condition of conflict resolution

Conflicts aren’t a problem if both people are behaving civilly and professionally. They only become a problem if one or both parties start behaving inappropriately. The problem then isn’t conflict resolution. It’s inappropriate behavior.

Bullying tip #47: Why reporting bullying behavior is so important.

Focusing on the wrong thing

How you get people to stop a behavior is a question for behavioral psychology – which has a fabulous answer. An answer that has been researched for decades – it’s called extinguishing a behavior.

Children and Adults

When a child is called names in school, we call it bullying. When an adult is called names in the workplace, we call it harassment.

Compassionate Non-Compliance

How long does this take?

How long does it take? Well, are you dealing with someone who is in control of their behavior or not? If they are, a few days to a few weeks tops. If they aren’t, it can take longer.