The Reward Might Not Be Coming from the Victim
Bullying isn’t about the victim. It’s about the bully. Deny them the control they seek and you are doing them and yourself and all their other victims a favor.
Help! My kid doesn’t want my help.
Our impulse as parents is to fix things. But we really need to trust that our kids can handle these situations with our support.
Why Fighting Bullies Doesn’t Work
If you learn anything from the current Republican primary – let it be this. Fighting back against a bully really doesn’t work. Rubio and Jeb! are proof of that.
Repetition as a Way to Get a Bully to Stop
The technique to get a bully to stop is easy to teach. What isn’t easy? Making sure you repeat it enough times to make the bullying actually stop. So – …