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Why do bullies bully? How can we get them to stop?

Bullying Tips

Bullying tip #16: Stop bullying with compassion

The most effective anti-bullying skill is almost never taught.  Acting out of anger makes things worse. The most effective tool for combatting bullying is compassion. Unfortunately, we rarely teach that …

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Practice and Prepare to Prevent Bullying

Why you need to practice what to say and how to say it with your child so they will know how to stop bullying. If your child tells you they …

Bullying Tip #9: Bullies deserve our compassion
Bullying Tips

Bullying Tip #9: Bullies deserve our compassion

Bullies want you to be afraid of them. If you aren’t afraid of them, they will find another victim. Refuse to be afraid. Feel compassion for them instead. Feeling sorry for a bully is better than being afraid of them

Bullying tip #8 from The Bully Vaccine book
Bullying Tips

Bullying Tip #8: Bullying isn’t usually about the victim at all.

Bullying prevention often focuses on the victim when we should be focusing on why bullies bully in the first place. The bully has their own problems. Bullying isn’t usually about the victim at all. Video lesson

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