Beat Bullying by Not Fighting
Getting the best of a bully doesn’t mean adopting their tactics. It means being strategic and allowing the bully to show off how much of a jerk they really are. …
Getting the best of a bully doesn’t mean adopting their tactics. It means being strategic and allowing the bully to show off how much of a jerk they really are. …
It takes courage, knowledge, a little bit of science and consistency to get a bully to stop. Doing nothing and hoping things will change doesn’t work.
Bullying will only stop when we stop tolerating it. Taking the focus off of what is wrong with the victim and putting the focus on the bully’s behavior as inappropriate and not civil is how we get bullying to stop.
Bullying isn’t a one off event. It’s a pattern of harassment that involves multiple incidents over a period of time. You can’t report it once and be done with it. You must have a strategy for what you are going to do IF reporting it doesn’t work.