I give really good advice. Seriously I do. It isn't so much that I help people solve their immediate problems, it is that I help them think more clearly about their problems so that they can solve them in a way they are going to feel REALLY good about. The people I help tell me I have transformed their lives. The approach I teach is called Humanism and it has been around since, well, forever. The three main aspects of the philosophy I teach is how to make better decisions thru critical thinking. How to improve your relationships thru compassion and how to infuse your life with meaning and purpose by applying your ethics actively to all your decisions, not just the big ones.
I am the host of this website and the author of The Bully Vaccine which teaches an operant conditioning approach to the problem of bullying.
When you deal with unwanted behavior – like bullying, issuing a delta is important. No. this isn’t ok. Stop. This is a statement, not a request. If they don’t stop – then – there will be consequences.
Bullying and harassment is hard. It impacts our self esteem and sometimes, we just need to take care of ourselves. I recently watched the Jonas Brothers documentary – chasing happiness. …
Don’t assume you know who someone is. Don’t assume you know why they are acting the way they are. Give people a chance. Let them surprise you with their kindness.