I give really good advice. Seriously I do. It isn't so much that I help people solve their immediate problems, it is that I help them think more clearly about their problems so that they can solve them in a way they are going to feel REALLY good about. The people I help tell me I have transformed their lives. The approach I teach is called Humanism and it has been around since, well, forever. The three main aspects of the philosophy I teach is how to make better decisions thru critical thinking. How to improve your relationships thru compassion and how to infuse your life with meaning and purpose by applying your ethics actively to all your decisions, not just the big ones.
I am the host of this website and the author of The Bully Vaccine which teaches an operant conditioning approach to the problem of bullying.
I like that people in my industry are well intentioned and passionate. I also like that everyone wants to fix the problem. What I don’t like? People don’t know what …
It is very easy to get upset because what we think is happening. What we need to remember, is what we think is happening, might not be what is actually happening. We can only know what we know. We can’t know what is going on in other people’s head. This causes – distorted perspectives.
We’ll never raise moral children by disciplining them immorally. I have been chatting a lot lately with my new friend Izrael Kalman. He is a psychologist who specializes in helping …
I was recently interviewed by an anti-bullying activist for Psychology Today. It was chosen as an essential topic – which is nice. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/resilience-bullying/202201/dolphin-trainer-humanistic-bullying-expert We discussed many topics, more than are …