Focusing on the form the harassment takes – is focusing on the wrong thing. The problem isn’t the specific behavior. It’s the use of harassment to oppress or subjugate people that is the problem.
The laws – aren’t even working for lawyers and that’s because all the laws do is provide remedies for people who are victims – but only if they can prove it or have the money to hire a lawyer. And guess what – most law firms – represent the company – not the person claiming to be a victim? Why – because that’s who has the money to pay for lawyers.
Confidence is not something anyone gets magically. This is not a some people have it and some don’t sort of skill. You just have to practice it. And you do that by liking yourself enough that other people’s negativity just doesn’t bother you. And they way you get to the point you like yourself enough to not be bothered by negative people, is by doing the things that bring you joy.
The other day I was at my son’s school for a theater workshop. I was speaking to another mom. Our kids are in the same class and it was the …