The price of rejecting reality is high

The emotional & strategic benefits of accepting reality

In order to solve your problem, you have to accept you have a problem to solve. I was stalked. It took me over a year to admit to myself that it was happening. Victims of bullying and of stalking will often deny that it is happening. This isn’t healthy or helpful.

Sometimes you win by not fighting

Caution – this post is not appropriate for children. Every time we have a terrorist attack, our instinct is to fight back. Or rather, some people’s instinct is to fight …

Behaving Badly Yourself

We are all responsible for being professional and civil and that if a co-worker starts issuing deltas to you to get you to stop doing something they find objectionable, that you should take that as constructive criticism.

Children and Adults

When a child is called names in school, we call it bullying. When an adult is called names in the workplace, we call it harassment.