Why did bullies bully me?

People write to me with questions all the time. I want to make one thing clear about the reasons why people are bullying you.

Do you hate bullies?

What works is to no longer respond to the bullying the way the bully wants. Being upset and angry – is an emotional response. Your anger, may actually be rewarding to the bully. That’s the first reason to not allow your anger to consume you.

Bullying tip #43: Why and how to overcome your fear of the bully in your life.

Hate & bullying

When it comes to bullies – we all hate bullies. But – is that even a good response?