Focusing on the form the harassment takes – is focusing on the wrong thing. The problem isn’t the specific behavior. It’s the use of harassment to oppress or subjugate people that is the problem.
The laws – aren’t even working for lawyers and that’s because all the laws do is provide remedies for people who are victims – but only if they can prove it or have the money to hire a lawyer. And guess what – most law firms – represent the company – not the person claiming to be a victim? Why – because that’s who has the money to pay for lawyers.
The big change is that – women are not longer willing to suffer in silence and just try to move on. We are sharing our stories with one another and gaining confidence that – the problem isn’t us. It’s men.
The question is – what are you going to do about it. First – understand – this is mentally draining and traumatic. Your response to this – isn’t blown out of proportion. It’s ok to respond the way you are.