I give really good advice. Seriously I do. It isn't so much that I help people solve their immediate problems, it is that I help them think more clearly about their problems so that they can solve them in a way they are going to feel REALLY good about. The people I help tell me I have transformed their lives. The approach I teach is called Humanism and it has been around since, well, forever. The three main aspects of the philosophy I teach is how to make better decisions thru critical thinking. How to improve your relationships thru compassion and how to infuse your life with meaning and purpose by applying your ethics actively to all your decisions, not just the big ones.
I am the host of this website and the author of The Bully Vaccine which teaches an operant conditioning approach to the problem of bullying.
The point is – telling people – it’s against the law – doesn’t change behavior. In fact – it actually has adverse consequences – where males decide the best way to not break the law – is to exclude women entirely! Which – is also harmful.
The big change is that – women are not longer willing to suffer in silence and just try to move on. We are sharing our stories with one another and gaining confidence that – the problem isn’t us. It’s men.