Feel sorry for bullies

First – the science. Bullies are humans. Did you know that? Yeah. they are. And we humans behave badly towards one another for a wide variety of reasons. Most of these reasons have nothing to do with the victim and everything to do with the kid behaving badly.

DARVO: Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender.

When a bully gets caught – they tend to act very predictably. So predictibly that if you weren’t sure whether the accusations are true or not – if they engage in certain predictable behavior after being accused, it’s a good indicator that they did something they shouldn’t have.

Bullying tip #51: Why we should call bullying by it's real name.

Parents need help

What she described as bullying, isn’t bullying. It’s assault and battery and it’s criminal.