I was a speaker at the recent World Anti-Bullying Forum. My subject was “Integrating behavioral psychology into reactive strategies to end bullying.” I want to share with you some of the questions during the Q&A. But first, the video.
First, let me explain what a proxy problem is. A proxy problem is the problem you think is your problem, but isn’t really your real problem. It’s standing in for …
This was a comment I got on one of my anti-bullying videos. The person was saying, no – they don’t need to feel compassion for their bully. I get it. No one wants to feel bad for a bully. But that’s not the point of feeling compassion.
Being lied about is upsetting. Our instincts are to defend ourselves from the slander. But is that really the best way to deal with it?
