Distorted Perspectives

It is very easy to get upset because what we think is happening. What we need to remember, is what we think is happening, might not be what is actually happening. We can only know what we know. We can’t know what is going on in other people’s head. This causes – distorted perspectives.

Moral Discipline and bullying

 We’ll never raise moral children by disciplining them immorally. I have been chatting a lot lately with my new friend Izrael Kalman. He is a psychologist who specializes in helping …

Sticks and Stones, Deltas and Bullies

I was recently interviewed by an anti-bullying activist for Psychology Today. It was chosen as an essential topic – which is nice. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/resilience-bullying/202201/dolphin-trainer-humanistic-bullying-expert We discussed many topics, more than are …

The scientific reality of escalation

I recently presented a paper at the World Anti-Bullying Forum. One of the conversations I had with another participant had to do with the scientific reality of escalation and the …