Bullying tip #45: Why and how compassion makes bullies stop.

Don’t Hate the Hater and Don’t Bully the Bully

If someone is behaving badly, you don’t have to join them. Hate is a very difficult emotion to feel and it’s a very difficult emotion to carry. If you want to be happy in life, and I hope you do, learn how to deal with difficult people, with love, joy and compassion. It will drive the haters mad.

Do you hate bullies?

What works is to no longer respond to the bullying the way the bully wants. Being upset and angry – is an emotional response. Your anger, may actually be rewarding to the bully. That’s the first reason to not allow your anger to consume you.

Bullying tip #8 from The Bully Vaccine book

Hate and Bullying

It’s amazing that such a small tweak to how you think can make such a big difference. So don’t hate your bully, feel compassion for them.