It’s amazing that such a small tweak to how you think can make such a big difference. So don’t hate your bully, feel compassion for them.
Hate isn’t a weapon. It’s an emotion. It’s an outgrowth of anger and it’s part of our emotional toolkit for a reason. It helps us know when there is a problem that needs to be fixed because bad things are occurring.
When it comes to bullies – we all hate bullies. But – is that even a good response?
Haters want you to hate. By refusing to – you deny them what they want. Which is for you to be as unhappy as they are.