In order to solve your problem, you have to accept you have a problem to solve. I was stalked. It took me over a year to admit to myself that it was happening. Victims of bullying and of stalking will often deny that it is happening. This isn’t healthy or helpful.
Chronic bullying is a lot like stalking. If your bully can’t get to you one way, they will try another. This is why bullying often ends up online, something we now call cyberbullying or cyber stalking.
Some bullying is spite. The person is angry or afraid and they don’t’ know how to express that emotion or they are unable to (impotent) and their emotion comes out as spiteful behavior.
Caution – this post is not appropriate for children. Every time we have a terrorist attack, our instinct is to fight back. Or rather, some people’s instinct is to fight …
